if a man wants you....

OPRAH WINFREY HAD TO
SAY ABOUT MEN :

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from
heartache. Stop trying to change yourself for a
relationship that's not meant to be.
Slower is better. Never live your life for a man
before you find what makes you truly happy.
If a relationship ends because the man was not
treating you as you deserve then heck no,
you can't "be friends". A friend wouldn't mistreat
a friend. Don't settle. If you feel like he is
stringing you along, then he probably is
Don't stay because you think "it will get better"
You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying
when things are not better.The only person you can
control in a relationship is you. Avoid men who've
got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women.
He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant,
why would he treat you any differently?
Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If
something bothers you, speak up.Never let a man
know everything.* He will use it against you later.
You cannot change a man's behavior.*
Change comes from within. Don't EVER make him feel
he is more important than you are...
Even if he has more education or in a better job.
Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man,
nothing more nothing less. Never let a man define
who you are. Never borrow someone else's man. If he
cheated with you, he'll cheat on you. A man will only
treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
All men are NOT dogs.You should not be the one
doing all the bending... Compromise is two way street.
You need time to heal between relationships...
There is nothing cute about baggage...Deal with
your issues before pursuing a new relationship.
You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...
A relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...
Look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.
Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr.
Right. Make him miss you sometimes... when a man
always know where you are, and you're always
readily available to him - he takes it for granted
Never move into his mother's house. Never co-sign
for a man. Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give
you everything that you need.*Keep him in your radar
but get to know others. Scared of being alone is what
makes a lot of women stay in relationships that are
abusive or hurtful: Dr. Phil says You should know that:
You're the best thing that could ever happen to anyone
and if a man mistreats you, he'll miss out on a good
thing. If he was attracted to you in the 1st place,
just know that he's not the only one.They're all watching
you, so you have a lot of choices. Make the right one.
Ladies take care of your own hearts...